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POSITION & POSTURE
One of the factors that sets spanking apart from other forms of swatting is
the deliberate and sometimes ceremonial positioning of the participants. While
some spankings are haphazard, I prefer spankings that include the ritual of
Both the spankee and spanker adopt positions that facilitate and enhance the
spanking. These positions generally work to the advantage of the spanker and the
disadvantage of the spankee.
The spanker enjoys the following advantages from their position:
- Comfort. Whether standing or sitting, the spanker is positioned to be
comfortable throughout the spanking. They are able to swing their arm at a
natural angle and able to sustain a lengthy spanking with ease because of
- Strength. Because they are able to wind up and freely swing their arm at a
natural angle, the spanker is able to apply swats to the intended target with
force. While standing, the spanker cannot only swing their arm but rotate
their body to deliver maximum energy to an anxiously awaiting, clenching
- Full access to the bottom to be spanked. The spankee's position is
designed to fully expose their bottom and the spanker's relative position is
designed to put that bottom at a convenient angle and height. Therefore, the
spanker is able completely view, tweak, pat, and spank it.
- Safety. Because the spanker is in the position to easily spank the
rear-end at the correct angle, it is much less likely that a blow will fall
too high or too low.
- Control. The spanker's position gives them the "upper hand" and allows
them to easily control the spankee. They sit or stand higher than the spankee
and are easily able to restrain and situate the spankee.
A wonderful view of your bottom and vulva
The spankee realizes the following effects from their position:
- Relative comfort. Except for the notable exception of their backside, I
think it's important that the spankee be relatively comfortable so they can
focus on the sensations being inflicted upon their posterior.
- Anticipation. Bending over and getting into position to get your bottom
blistered signals the beginning of the spanking and builds anticipation.
- Increased sensation. A properly positioned bottom will tend to be spanked
harder and more completely on the sensitive "sit spot".
- Humiliation. Being put over the knee is a childish, humiliating posture.
Having to "assume the position" is humiliating in its submission and rubs in
the fact that they are being spanked.
- Exposure. A properly positioned bottom is fully exposed. The cheeks are
fully presented and split, their undersides turned up. In the case of men, the
anus and back of scrotum show. Women are even more exposed, their rectums and
vulvas fully visible.
- Emphasis on their bottom. Spanking positions place the center of attention
on the bottom of the person being spanked, a fact not lost on said person. The
bottom is emphasized by its exposure and upturned position relative to the
- Presentation of their bottom. Not only is the bottom exposed and
emphasized but the spankee feels they are willingly "sticking it out" and
presenting it for its punishment in the same way as the condemned man who must
place his head on the chopping block. The spankee knows their bottom cannot
evade or escape the swats.
- Submission. Cooperatively getting into position to be spanked is the
primary act of submission in spanking.
- Safety. Although it may be of little solace, the spankee can take comfort
in the fact that their position affords safety from injury. Of course, this
can be disconcerting if they know they will be spanked with even more abandon.
- Loss of control. Once positioned, the spankee has relinquished control and
may not easily regain it until the spanking is done. They may have difficulty
removing their rear from the line of fire if they try.
- Inability to clench. When standing, one can clench their cheeks together,
mitigating the sting of a swat and the exposure. When properly positioned, it
is more difficult to clench cheeks and the spanking will be applied to a
relaxed, bouncing bottom.
- Excellent visual presentation. Speaking from the point of view of an
admitted bottom fancier, there a few times that someone looks more adorable
and beautiful than when he or she is positioned to be spanked. Not only is the
bottom emphasized, but it is formed to a flattering shape and sexily perked
out. Spanking positions would be sexy even to people not into spanking.
Following are descriptions of various positions that I find erotic, their
distinguishing characteristics, tactics that can be used to enhance them, and
precautions to take. All descriptions assume a right-handed spanker.
- Over the lap. Spanker is sitting with good posture in an armless chair,
knees together. Person being spanked must lay face- down across the spanker's
lap, their head to the left and feet to the right. They must be over the lap
far enough so their bottom is conveniently located directly over the spanker's
In order to preserve modesty, the person being spanked may be tempted to lie
flat with their head up and legs straight out behind; however, if they are
concerned for their modesty, they shouldn't have gotten themselves spanked in
the first place. The spankee's head and shoulders should be angled down and
their knees tucked down out of the way so that their bottom is well turned up. A
palm pressed against the back of the head and swats to the thighs are helpful in
positioning the spankee.
Knees should be at least six inches apart and the lower back should be
"arched" or dipped to further turn up their rear. For a woman, this will result
in her vulva being fully exposed and presented. Depending on size, toes will
either be resting against the floor or hoisted off a few inches. The full weight
of the spankee should be resting on the lap.
Hands can either be on the floor or grasping the legs of the chair. If the
right hand flies back during spanking, it should be pinned to the lower back by
the spanker's left hand.
Prior to starting to spank, the spanker should firmly grasp the spankee's
waist above the right hip with the left hand to prevent squirming off the lap.
Then the left elbow should be planted between the shoulder blades to keep the
head and shoulders from bobbing up.
The spanker should raise their right knee slightly, turning up the bottom
further. In the case of a woman spanking a boy, she should make sure his penis
is pressed firmly against her right thigh and aimed to the left.
By turning their upper body to the right, the spanker can get a fuller swing
and more comfortably apply a stronger swat.
By combining all of these tactics - the raised knee, the elbow in the back,
the hand in the small of the back - the spanker can effectively pin the spankee
down and spank the daylights out of them.
- Over the knee. Similar to over-the-lap except the spankee is bent over the
left knee with their legs restrained by the spanker's right leg.
- Hands on ankles. This is the classic school-style paddling position. The
student must stand well clear of obstacles with feet shoulder width apart.
Leaving knees straight and back straight, the student must bend over and grasp
their ankles with both hands. The spanker may want to observe the student's
hands throughout the paddling to ensure they do not leave the ankles and earn
The spanker stands facing the left side of the student. They should stand far
enough away so the paddle barely overlaps past the right cheek. They should
adjust fore and aft to ensure that both cheeks are struck at the same time
(assuming a paddle is being used. Canes and straps warrant slightly forward
It is not possible to more fully expose and present a rear end than when in
this position. When one is told to bend over and grab their ankles, one is, in
effect, being told, "we intend to thoroughly paddle your bottom. So not only
will you present your rear-end but you will stretch and endeavor to stick it up
and out as far as you can absolutely positively can. And throughout the
paddling, you will continue to strain to stick it out for the paddle."
Since the angle between the legs and the upper body is well under 90 degrees,
this position spreads the cheeks and exposes the rectum and genitals more than
any other position.
This is a great fantasy position but I think it only works safely in reality
for spankees with flexible bodies (especially when a thick paddle is used).
Inflexible people can't reach their ankles without bending their knees. Men run
the risk of getting their testicles whacked. Non-fleshy butts get pulled tightly
across the pelvic bones and don't provide enough padding when a heavy paddle is
- Hands on knees. A safer, more workable position than hands-onankles. The
bottom is presented in a plumper, more paddle-friendly shape but visually, the
position is still very school-like. Depending on the person, I think this
position can be more visually appealing because the back can be arched a bit
which perks up the bottom. In fact, the further up the legs the hands are
placed, the more the spankee can arch their back and stick out their rump.
Again, feet should be shoulder width apart and hand position enforced.
Because the back can be arched and bottom upturned, it should be required, both
prior and during the paddling. A technique which tends to arch the back
correctly is to require the student to look forward at a spot high on the wall.
That way, they are required to pull their head up and arch their back.
- Over the desk on tiptoes. Another school-like position. The student must
bend over a desk with nose or chest pressed to the desk. Hands and arms should
be placed on the desk over their head to further arch the back. To further
elevate their bottoms to be spanked, they must raise up on to their toes.
Penalty swats can be awarded for every incidence of a heal touching the floor
(hint: watch after the "last" swat before the student is told they may relax).
- Over a barstool or horse. This is probably the best position for paddling
because the bottom is presented in a plump and relaxed manner. The person to
be punished must lay their full weight across the stool, their feet hanging
and hands grasping the legs of the stool at a level such that there is a
little support for their upper body.
This is a relaxed, comfortable position which works well for lengthy
- Laying on bed. Another comfortable position for lengthy spankings and
ensuing diversions. The spankee must lay face-down on a bed. Their face should
be pressed to the mattress while their hips and bottom are elevated on
pillows. Since pillows are compressible, it may take three or four to achieve
the proper elevation.
- Kneeling in chair. One of my favorite positions for spankees with great
butts because, properly executed, it presents the rear in its most flattering
light. The trick is in the execution.
The spankee must kneel in the seat of a padded chair (save those knees)
facing the back with the thighs vertical and upper body forward over the back.
Again, the spankee should be required to arch the back well.
Two things conspire to shape his or her bottom cutely. First, the back of the
chair prevents him or her from bending so far as to preclude a good back arch.
Second, just as high heels shape calves fully by angling the foot to shorten and
bulge the calf muscle, kneeling with the calves at right angles to the thighs
seems to allow the buttocks to bulge fully.
I've found the following tactics can be used to enhance and focus on
- Adjustment & readjustment. I think it's important to deliberately
position and adjust the spankee prior to the first swat. Emphasis should be
placed on positioning and presenting the bottom fully. Throughout the
spanking, the spankee should be readjusted as their position begins to fail.
- Verbal instruction. I think it's best to require the spankee to willfully
maintain their own position with out the physical assistance of the spanker
especially in the case of stand-up paddlings. Therefore, verbal communication
is necessary throughout the spanking to encourage the spankee to continue to
assume the correct position.
- Pickiness. One of the disciplinary aspects of spanking is that no matter
how perfect the spankee is positioned, they can always improve, stick their
bottom out a little further, etc. The spanker should not feel guilty that
their exacting demands regarding position are perhaps a little too picky and